Anonymous asked this question on 3/21/2000:
a girl at school keeps touching me in weird places. i think she's a lesbian, and it's really scaring me. she makes me uncomfortable, but she'll be insulted if i blow her off. what should i do?
Karebear11 gave this response on 3/23/2000:
dont make it look like you're blowing her off! next time she touches you or does something that makes you uncomfortable, gently remove her hand, or pull back a little bit. this will give her the message that you aren't comfortable with her doing this, without hurting her feelings. If she doesn't respond, or she seems to oblivious, make your efforts a little stronger. if she still won't back off, have a little talk with her. it may seem weird, but it's really the best way to let her know. maybe other people are annoyed with her too, and someone needs to let her know. if she is, in fact, a lesbian, you need to understand that that is her decision and there's nothing wrong with it, but it doesn't mean that she has the right to do things that make you uncomfortable.
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