huey_vivian asked this question on 4/13/2000:
okay he's my question i left my boyfiend for two weeks stright and then one day me and my friend was in the his car the friends car and he was crying and saying that he would never hit me angain then he left me but he did not want anybody elese he wanted just me in his life but i went back to him the third time around what should i do should i learn to trust him and think things will be okay this time or what?????????????
synderella gave this response on 4/14/2000:
The best advice I can give you is NOT to stay with him, he hit you once before why go with him again. The reason you learn to trust is because of the act he puts, nomally men that hit do this to look for your vulnerability, believe me I know, I was in the same situation you are in now. I didn't want to leave him because I "loved him" but I knoew that if I trusted him again eventually I would get hurt again. I am only looking out for your safety in giving you this advice, please be careful, and don't ever let anyone hurt you, you deserve a man who will treat you with respect and love and kindness, not someone who is abusive, maybe he will change but I would not trust his actions compleatly.
Take care of you, if he hurts you leave him for good. I pray and send all my blessings to you, and my God be with you both. Remember to go with what you feel, even if what you feel means letting him go,
Bless you!! Smile angels are watching =o)
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